I have a challenge for you - Go orbit a station.
When you have nothing better to do in highsec - undock. Pick something small, nimble, maybe sexy. Drop in the t2 prop mod and speed boosts, set your orbit to 100km and zip around.
I've been struck lately by the vitality of some systems. It's something I'd forgotten.
You see, in the days before warp-to-zero (WTZ) gates, we all had to slowboat in from autopilot distance. Each gate. Every time. It was a tedious way to travel, and made the route from A to Z a true journey.
I'm not advocating the removal of WTZ gates and stations. I enjoy/abuse the feature as much as anyone. But I also think that when you're flashing from gate to gate in a click frenzy, you miss out on BEING IN SPACE and watching other ships come and go. The humanity of it all escapes us, and EVE quickly becomes a very memory-intensive chat app.
Recently, CCP added a flash graphic and a little 'fffump' sound effect when people drop from warp around you. It's such a subtle thing, but it's made a big impact on me as I'm coming and going. Each time there's a flash or a thump, it means someone else, some other player, is doing something near me.
So, sometime when you've got nothing better to do ... instead of sitting in station spinning your ship ... just undock. Take a look outside at the ships - the players - coming and going. I hope I'm not overselling it, but it makes space feel alive. Thriving. Human.